Im very kinky, but im only 18 and kinda new to trying to get a bdsm relationship going. So i tried tinder, only got like 2 matches and both lost interess i guess.

But i had this thought that i allways wanted to look kinky, but idk how, but i feel like it would help as right now i look like a innocent christian thats anti kink🤷‍♂️ but my parents are christian and my friends are judgemental so i cant turn it up to a 110% so how do i subtly look more kinky?

I have allready gone from a comb over haircut to the flow, its not much but i love it.

Btw im a switch that leans to the submissive side.

I look relatively fit with some muscles and normaly i just wear a normal shirt in one color like blue and black pants that are a inbetween of jeans and sweatpant (they look good like jeans but are comfortable). I use glasses and have no tattoos, pircings or accessories.