I want to have a game with my Sub. Since my Sub is new to BDSM, I want to include vanilla activities as well.

Main idea is: I want to have 30 days in a row (it could be not necessarily 30 days, but 30 times we have sexual activities) when you do something according to the rules and nothing else.

For an example: 1) have an oral sex. Only your partner is allowed to finish. Punishment for breaking the rules: blabla

2) you are allowed to tease each other. Sex is not allowed. Punishment for breaking the rules:

3) You are allowed to have sex. Yet you are not allowed to make any noises, except moaning. Punishment:

4) Habdjob

And so on…

Do you have any webpages/apps/or lists, that would have something like this for an inspiration?

Also, I’m planning to make my own list, so your ideas / best experiences are highly welcome.