There is some sort of an obsession among doms with pic sharing. I understand that men are visual and all that, but sending nudes is something I’m not comfortable with in general. I also don’t feel safe about it since the dynamic I seek is online.

Whay I enjoy is verbal degradation, so texting already does it for me. I also enjoy tasks but since it’s about humiliation, I don’t feel safe to share any pics as a proof.

This is stopping me from finding a dynamic that I’m happy about. Most people seem to be pic collectors or obsessed with nudes etc. This is not my thing and it’s not fun being asked to take photos all the time.

I cannot have a dynamic irl atm so this is off the table, although it could solve all my issues.

Where should I look, or what I should do to find the right person? Thanks.