How do you guys do it? When boys are being bratty, disobedient, acting like dudebros, etc I’m really good at stepping into that more mean persona. But if they’re being cute, begging for things, kinda leaning into it etc I become more complimentary, offering praise, etc. I find it hard to be mean even if that’s what they want. I think in my head I’m like omg can’t be mean to baby 🥲 lol. Obviously in the first scenario being poorly behaved is the trigger for me and I find it easy to grab from my personality IRL for that one - when men are annoying, sexist, pissing me off (which is often LOL), etc etc I’m good at being short with them and just telling them what they need to do/stop doing/leave me alone/putting them down. But when they’re like behaving well or just generally really asking for what they want and enjoying it, there’s not really anything for me to hold onto to activate that meanness. IRL I’m a teacher and all about rewarding good behavior LOL 😂

Idk if it’s helpful but there’s a feminization dynamic between us. Would love any tips or experiences on being more mean, even when I love that my boy is being so sweet and obedient for me!