this is a kink I discovered young and practiced with the wrong person who ended up using the broad kink as blackmail. I've told my wife very honestly that I want to be dominated and in return dominate. I see it as an advanced foreplay. not into feet or wearing girl cloths or anything of rhat nature. more into the idea of control. we have tried pegging and she seems to enjoy that but I'm trying to introduce a more foreplay based on a respectful comfort zone involving role play and moderate pain. we have talked about scheduled sex where we have a setting to come home to. but we don't go much further than the conversation. I feel that coming on too strong can push her away from the entire kink. I'm aware not everyone is into it but am trying to bring this in based on trust and honesty. I can't really find and good games videos or links to help her better understand the kink at most of them are feet worship or playing dress up. i guess the question is, how to I better introduce my wife into the heavy foreplay lifestyle?