So my domme and me are in d/s for 9 months now at beginning everything was perfect and all but the last 3 months are hard we rarely talk abt d/s things anymore or do playtime and before someone comment it i am aware of her life or mental what is going on etc but there is nothing besides her new/old situationship partner that could be the reason forcher lack of effort and all. Ofc we talked abt it i told her if she can't handle both she just needs to talk with me and let me free since i am bound to not meet anyone else or have lewd fun besudes with her she owns me. This makes everything really hard i am loyal and dont date or see others and are not a whiny one that would have no understanding of her situation. But after 3 months getting completely no attation in a playfull lewd way or even dynamic just friendship stuff is making me overthink what and why it is like that since the past 3 months. I feel like she loves to own me but not investing anything into it but i also don't want to pressure her or something. I just think if she wants to own me and not seeing others then she should at least invest a bit energy and interest in doing stuff. I am wrong for thinking so? And how can i talk with her abt the problem?