Male sub in their 20s here, kinda grappling with this one. I feel like a lot of people have a straight answer on this one, but for me it’s a bit of a struggle.

As much as I do have some submissive interests, I also struggle with some bad depression and it sometimes leads me to wonder whether these are things I actually like or if I really am just desperate for human connection and a sense of purpose. And then it just kind of gets into this bad feedback loop where as much as you want to explore that and get to share that with someone you have a hard time doing so because being a male sub is kind of a nightmare and you get more sad and even more desperate for that feeling.

Kinda rambling at this point and I’m sure the first suggestion is just gonna be going to therapy (I’m in it, it’s not helping :P) but I’m curious if anyone else is going through this or if it’s just me