This list of kinks y’all want.

All of this communication, which really just means verbal and not physical communication.

Is it a kink to want to be with a man who is fully in his body and not worrying about a list?

Who wants to flirt and notice the physical signs of my body responding to his?

Is it a kink to want a man who simply lets his body respond to mine? Who pulls my hair because he’s frustrated and turned on, not because it’s “what’s done”.

Who fingers me in a movie theater and then slowly licks his finger to be able to taste me.

I don’t love pain with everyone, I loved it with Zach. I loved that he found new ways to push my body, nothing that has a “name”, no props. I loved how he was so present, giving me pleasure and pain to please himself.

I don’t love anal with everyone, I loved it with Dylan. I loved feeling how deeply turned on he was by my body and my eagerness for deeper, harder, rougher. I didn’t know I would shatter when he whispered in my ear “you take it so good for daddy”.

When I tell you I like it rough and you perform for me, guided by your mind and not your body… there’s no connection, I’m barely aroused and can’t cum.

Maybe I just belong in a different group? If so, what is it?