I recently had surgery on my chest, and will be at limited arm movement for a few weeks. Floggers are my favorite thing, but I won’t be able to use them for a few weeks therefore, and generally with movement limits, a lot of upper-body and arm-heavy things are difficult. My sub is super sweet, but I find I generally get more out of attending to her body vs having her do a lot to mine. She’s very willing to do service mostly for me, but I’m curious if anyone has ideas for arms-light play that aren’t just obvious position adjustments so I don’t need my arms/chest muscle for support.

She is also a bit shy about doing things to herself. I’m working with her on that, but it’s a process I respect taking time, and while this is a good chance to practice that, I don’t want all of it to feel like training time without some fun.