Sounds weird I know but I have severe appetite issues, and I’m a tiny woman. Some exs have “forced me to eat” buying me my favorite things, then telling me “I’m so proud of you, you’re such a good girl!” And it made me finally wanna eat in those moments. I liked when they’d check in through out the day “did you eat baby? No..? Okay I’m sending you door dash, send a pic of you eating” or if they’d cook for me and watch me eat.

It wasn’t the act of eating that turned me on it was the caregiving aspect. It made me loveeee going out on dates with new people for food. I love hearing a man say “let me feed you.” I’m really not motivated to eat unless it’s prepared for me/or bought for me as an act of care giving.

Right now I’m going through some body issues, not eating enough and I looked into trying find a niche kink for this cus I figured maybe finding people who love feeding me will help me eat more . So I wanna find a community. But all the feeder stuff I keep finding is very large women (I’m underweight) or mukbang. Is there a community similar to feeder where you don’t have to be large?