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Subs: Do you provide a play place and/or equipment?
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This is mostly applicable to subs and bottoms who do not live with a play partner.

Do you have a sex room or some equipment set up in your home? Or maybe more subtle edits to your bedroom for play, like bed straps or anchor points? Do you have your own toys/equipment which are only used on you by another person, like cuffs or a paddle (in contrast to toys you use by yourself which I assume most of us have)

Or, on the other hand, do you rely on a dom/top to have whatever they're going to use? Do you tend to have them come to yours and bring their own stuff, or do you go to theirs?

Also, what's the discussion about these things like in your experience? Is any of it assumed? Are equipment logistics usually in the conversation ahead of time? Do you always say what you do/don't own and decide on everything that will be brought/made available, or do you just discuss the activities and the equipment ends up being provided by one or both of you without having to talk about it?

I'm just curious since I'm can imagine the answers varying a lot from person to person.

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