I really don't know anything about BDSM stuff, but Friday night I was with the most amazing pleasure dom and he was giving me things to do, and i just wasn't listening. For instance he told me to ask for permission before i came, wasn't happening. Didn't even ask once. After the first few he quit telling me to ask, but he kept giving them to me for about 5 hours.

There was some other stuff he told me do, but I wasn't doing it. Kinda foggy about the whole thing, but i remember I kept thinking "Oops, i wasn't supposed to ask first" and telling him "nope, not doing it" when he wanted anal.

But fuck i had so much fun! Best night ever.

So how obnoxious is it to doms when their partners refuse to obey?