Hey there kinksters. My wife and i discovered bdsm this year and we started playing around a M/s dynamic. Its not a 24/7 high protocol but we did establish a couple of routines already. Recently i traveled for about 12 days and she has been slacking a bit. Im putting together a game-like experience to set us back on track. Im think a mix of experiences. The premise will revolve around her earning chips for her performance during the week and assessing how she has done each week and getting punished or rewarded based on the chips she has earned. I have some ideas, like two sided cards where she has to chose one only seeing the potential punishment but not being able to know the task on the other side. If she fails the task she gets the instant punishment on the other side plus not earning a chip for it. I have colored chips too that can have different values.

I’d like to hear from you what kind of games, tasks, punishments you’ve tried that i can incorporate. Fun is key to us, we like to laugh and enjoy it. We are into cnc, forced oral sex, spanking, shibari, orgasm denial, bodywritting to name a few. All suggestions welcome!