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I'm interested in getting into BDSM, but I don't know where to begin. Any advice? Details in description.
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Hi.

So, I'm a 23 yr old single male looking to explore this community for the first time. I'm very sexually inexperienced (as may be obvious), and I'm honestly just looking to get matched up with my first partner.

I'm a grad student in Tallahassee (Florida), and I'm primarily interested in playing the role of the submissive to a dominate woman. I'm not interested in findom (what can I say? I'm a poor grad student), but I'm otherwise quite curious and open to experimentation.

I've tried KinkD and a few other dating apps, but their functionality is quite limited without paying, and I've run into a few scammers. Are there any that are worth the cost? What are some other ways to find partners?

As for what type of partner I'm looking for, well, I'm not sure yet. I'd rather just test the waters first, see how it goes, and then build off of experience.

What do you all think? Any advice?

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