Hi everyone,

I’m relatively new to the BDSM/kink scene and looking for some guidance and understanding. My current partner seems to be more experienced than I am. He has a dominant and masculine personality, both in and out of the bedroom. I tend to be more submissive, but it seems that our definitions of submission differ.

Although we talk often and maintain open communication, there are still things I find rude or disrespectful that he doesn’t. For example, I don’t understand how being peed on in the shower isn’t disrespectful.

Any insight and explanations would be appreciated. What does being submissive or a submissive mean to you?

Thanks in advance!