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How would you explain what a a dominant/submissive relationship is and why people enjoy it to someone with 0 BDSM experience?
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Hey guys, I’ve been a dominant for a few years now, it’s something that has always come naturally to me and is in my nature as a person 😁 I recently started seeing someone with no BDSM experience and I’m struggling to explain to her the beauty behind a dominant/submissive relationship? You know the trust building, pushing each others limits, discovering new things together, the benefits for a sub being able to let go and what they get out of it and vice versa for the dominant, if anyone has a great way of summing this all up I would be incredibly appreciative πŸ˜‚πŸ™Œ I’d also like to iterate that I am not at all trying to convince her to engage in such a dynamic with me I am more so trying to explain why people enjoy it and what it is that makes it so special 😁 I hope this makes sense πŸ˜‚

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THIS. Thank you πŸ™Œ this is exactly what I was looking for and has helped immensely πŸ˜πŸ™Œ

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I have that book actually! Didn’t even think to look in there! Thank you 😁

Loving all of these comments! Thank you everyone 😁we really are so lucky to be blessed with such an incredible community πŸ˜πŸ™Œ

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Love this! 😁

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I’m really bad at putting things into words which is why I was seeking some help πŸ˜… I feel like using my experience wouldn’t come across the way I want it to, to someone who is super vanilla πŸ˜‚πŸ‘Ž

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