So. I saw a discussion on fetlife about somone seeing a bunch of ppl clearly dressed Little in public and how they didn't find it okey.

That got me thinking. When can you reasonably write clothing and accessories off as just fashion and where to draw the line cuz I would argue that an adult wearing cutesy childish clothing with fun cute patters could just as easily be fashion and only ppl within cgl would recognize if the top someone is wearing is actually a onecie from an abdl brand.

Similarly harnesses and alot of lether or latex gear that aint obviously serving a sexual function can also be written off as fashion because ppl do wear it for fashion too.

Obviously the private areas shouldn't be exposed or inhanced /put in focus, and gear that obviously serves a function such as pacifiers and leashes and whatever else isn't apropriate. But in the end alot of kink clothing /accessories could pretty easily just be a part of an outfit for someone dressing alternatively. Is the line actually drawn with clothing intims /accessories and if so where?

Is it a question about the meaning behind the clothing to the person wearing it?

Is it a question about some other kinkster bieng able to recognize it as something used within kink?

Is it only about exposure/nakedness?

I'm curious to see ppls opinions on the matter. Thanks in advance!