Hey there kinky side of reddit, I have a question for you!!

For some background, I was talking with a domme recently and we were talking about the different kind of exchanges between dommes/doms and subs. One of the things she mentioned was how she finds it so easy to turn on and tease a sub... yet subs seem to be completely clueless about how to turn her on. She then asked what I would do to try and turn her on, and I realized my answer was only based off of what I knew turned me on. The way I am first inclined to try and turn someone on is simply copying the way a dom would... which doesn't exactly work ON a dom. And I am personally bad at it because I heavily lean sub and I'm also not good at taking initiative. Makes sense. But at the same time, it makes me very lost on how I would even go about trying to turn on a dom...

That leads me to my question for the class. Doms, what do/can subs do to turn you on? Alternatively, subs, what do you do to turn on your dom(s)?

I'm very interested in having conversations on the subject through chat. However, if you would just like to leave a comment, that's fine too. I'm very open to hearing all sorts of experiences, from men, women, and anyone in between.