I am curious to know how a wife may talk t on her husband without directly calling him a Cuck.

She says a lot of harsh things that make me feel insecure like be a man, grow a pair etc.

For me I take it all to heart as I am not big down below and only last 1-2 minutes at most so already feel like less of a man.

We got together young and as she had never been with anyone else asked to have sex with someone else and I could tell her mind was made up and she had already found someone to do it with the next day. This happened 3 more times over the next few years until I lost it and she has never asked again so either she stopped wanting or still doing and not telling. Because if this I am trying to see if there are any signals or things she may say with hidden meanings so I can approach her to let he know I would be ok with this if she wants as I am older and more mature now and know I can’t satisfy her the way she should be.