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I'll start. Mine is blackmail. I'm not sure if that's unusual, but I find it so hot if I could blackmail someone. Coz that'd be like complete submission to me, which I really crave so much. I find it so much fun to get or collect info on someone that I could use against or maybe just threaten them, keeping it all consensual ofcourse 🙂.
Another one for me would be snuff, of course not in real life. It's another way of experiencing complete submission, plus it's just so much fun thinking about all the ways I could finish someone.
Would love to hear from you guys :)
I enjoy it so much I usually do it every time I travel. Fulfilling rape fantasies, and if I'm lucky added blood play. The CNC isn't very unusual, but the blood play is. Both are kinda taboo though.
Thank you I often have to explain how I make it safe. I like to have friends wherever I go, and getting friends to trust you is key.
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Blood play? Practice. Mostly on myself. I just make superficial cuts that heal quickly and can be handled with basic first aid. Just enough to get blood. For knives I use a really good pocket knife, and I use sewing needles for pins. Sterilized with an alcohol solution before each play session.
Like everything in bdsm.
1) be aware of the risks. (In this case cutting something important and infection).
2) figure out how best to avoid those situations. (In this case give essentially paper cuts with clean sharps.)
3) Communicate obstacles to safety (like if they take blood thinners or anti coagulants.)
4) always have a plan Incase something does happen. (A bag with towels and several ace bandages so I can apply a bandage across the entire back/chest/arm/etc, and if course I would call an ambulance if the worst happened)
5) Share any fallout that can happen. (In this case despite my best efforts scars can happen, and pain and fear are expected.)
6) Don't play if they don't understand and willingly consent to the risks and fun.