Hi everyone,

I have been doing impact play for many years, partially in a monogamous marriage for most of that time where bruising was a limit.

I'm playing with a few bottoms now that want to have those pretty purple bruises on their asses, but for some reason, even after longer sessions impact with deep, thuddy toys AND stingy surface ones the bruises aren't developing.

Safety disclosure and awareness: Kink is risky, impact play is literally hitting someone to cause pain... And bruising is damage to cell tissue and subcutaneous bleeding. While we always strive to minimize harm, hurting people is something us sadistic fucks enjoy. So... I'm aware of the risks.

That being said. I'm wondering if there are techniques I'm not using, or if there are certain techniques that I'm implying that are prohibiting those beautiful bruises from forming.

I'd love to hear suggestions, ideas, experiences from sadists AND bottoms on how they've achieved larger, lasting bruises so I can explore doing that a bit more.

Many thanks in advance everyone! Happy Friday!