So I am extremely submissive to daddy whenever we had our sessions. But throughout our relationship, I realise I could have a tendency to be a switch due to my stubbornness. Daddy is a soft dom so when I’m a bit bratty he sometimes gave in (his excuse was because of love!) But during a scene I wouldn’t be dominant towards him (at least I don’t think I am).

I recently moved in with him, and because we are now living together, he is experiencing/witnessing more of my dominant side. I don’t really enjoy behaving this way towards him, so part of me is considering on finding another person I can (soft) dominate, but I remember we had a discussion about this and daddy is not open to have another third party involved in my life that could take up my time/attention.

So my question is how do switches find the balance to satisfy both of your needs? For me, as mentioned, daddy gave in sometimes so my dom side is probably satisfied but I just don’t like the idea of doing it to him 😕