"But what do I get out of it"

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So. Im someone who prefers to play non sexually and doesn't perform sexual favors for someone I do bdsm with. I get the question "but what does your dom get out of it then" so often and I'm never quite sure how to reply besides "a dom who's compatible with me will get more then enough out of whatever play we do or whatever else favors I'll give" and I'm generally met with more confusion.

Does anyone have any idea of how to respond?

Ain't nessesaily a huge problem for me but just kinda annoying to hear all of the time lol.

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