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What do you do when people follow you on Fetlife?
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I'm a bit socially awkward sometimes and things like this confuse me. I don't post much on FL, no new pictures, writings, etc. in years, not even a status update.

I briefly meet people at a club, or exchange a greeting, maybe an introduction. Or maybe they see me comment about an event or something else about the club on Fetlife (FL). Then later that night or the next day I see they are following me on FL. This has happened 4 times in the last 3 weeks. Pretty much 1 person follows me after every time I'm at the club. I'm assuming they are somewhat interested in me. Im new at this club and haven't been in the scene or community in many years and even when I was in the scene before, I usually met a Domme I liked and kind of fell out of the community aspect and just spent time with them 1 on 1 after that unless they wanted to take me to the club.

What would you do, follow them back? Send a message and say hi? I don't want to be too forward, pretty shy.

If you follow people (like me who don't post content) after briefly meeting them, why do you do it? Help me understand the reasons you do this.

I understand following people who post interesting content often and stuff like that, but that's not me at all.

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