I was just trying to be a good friend to him and now I’m regretting it.I’ll call him L.

I took L to a Fetlife event and he took to Fet really well. Until he found a mistress and now they’re in “love.” They had one scene, L is collared and now they’re telling each other they love each other.

See I thought he took to Fetlife really well. And maybe he did, but it feels more like I fed him to a batch of hungry sharks. In my defense I’d assumed he was safe, he’d been kinky long before I was. But I’m realizing with time that him being “kinky” was (lower than)him being an amateur even in his lower teens, it was unsafe. Unpredictable. And I can’t assume he knows the morals.

L and his Mistress have been talking about me. A separate friend of mine, a more experienced Daddy, is telling me to be careful. That there’s a red flags everywhere. I don’t love that I’m being included in their little triangle as much as I am. Cause L’s mistress doesn’t just have L, she has another sub too. And apparently the sub took to L as well.

L was giving off red flags even before we were close friends. I’ve gone through periods of time where I severely distanced myself from him. He’s obsessed with me, and I thought he started to grow up. And now he’s in this relationship and now he’s learning and mirroring new things but blind to the facts.

All around feels tragic and now I have to be careful, I have to have my own wits about me cause I’m not about to join a freaking Fet cult in the making lol.