i kinda hate when i say something about not being in a dynamic and really wanting to me and have people respond saying, “it takes time but i found my dom/sub almost immediately and we clicked so well and now we’re married” or something along those lines 😭 i know its not meant to be bragging but it always feels that way to me. why mention it takes time to find someone when it essentially took you no time and you just “got lucky”? how do i get this luck everyone else has 🤣

i mean this all in a lighthearted jokey way. im so glad other people were lucky and able to find rather quickly, but it does sting a little i dont have that same luck