My situation is following: I had several sex-relationships (don’t know how to call it properly), where we used to spend time together, but we were not dating. All these relationships were BDSM, where I used to be a Dom and my partners liked being dominated and a little bit humiliated.

I enjoyed it as well. Important is that we respected each other, but were perfectly playing roles.

Currently, I’m in a serious relationships with a partner, who wants to be humiliated. But I cannot humiliate a person I love. I have this for the 2nd time in my life.

What do you do, when you like to humiliate, but it’s the person you love and you cannot consider him/her a sex you / slave?