Good morning everyone. My SO has started asking about "what I am into" and as much as I wish it weren't the case, I happen to enjoy the excitement of CnC (with a focus on body betrayal). The issue is she is brand new to kink. We have done a bit of bondage, gags, vibes, and dirty talk, and she has been all about it so far, but aside from a few saucy romance novels and a bit of smut here and there, she lacks the years of kinky videos or comics that probably got most of us into our degeneracies, so I don't want to scare her with a tactless description. I have a pretty solid understanding of the psychology behind why I am into what I like and ways of explaining it that doesn't make me sound like a psychopath, but I am not as good at expressing what's going on the submissive side of the roleplay. To all the subs out their that like CnC, what draws you to it and how would you try and sell it to a new sub curious about CnC?