I was thinking about this earlier today, one of my kinks is Service Submission, mostly from the dominant side though. I feel it's hard to bring up since I feel like it can come off as "Oh I just want someone to do my chores for me" and not "I get a deep gratification from someone providing for me as a show of submission"

In fact, I don't even like the idea of it as just doing chores like cleaning the kitchen or whatever, but as a more intimate deal. Such as stuff like foot massages or fetching drinks or serving as a footrest (I guess that leans more into forniphilia but I hope I'm getting my point across)

Now obviously it's between two consenting adults so it doesn't *really* matter that much how others interpret it but if I didn't overthink things I wouldn't be as nervous as I am today lol. To me it feels like it can be an incredibly cute way to show one's submission in a way that's different from purely sexual BDSM. But as I said before, I feel like it's something that can give a wrong impression very easily. I also feel like it can easily come off as misogynistic if worded wrong, at least for a male dominant, mostly from the idea of "Oh you want a Service Submissive? You just want a woman in the kitchen to make your dinner for you and clean your house?" which couldn't be further from the truth, I'd be mortified if anyone be it my partner, my brother or anyone else clean up messes. I just feel like it can come off as being something that people can jump to the wrong conclusion about very easily.

So I was wondering, for those who incorporate it as part of your Dynamic, what does it look like and how would you explain it to a potential partner?