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Hey all,
I've been practicing BDSM for a long time and have a fair bit of experience, but this one is new to me.
I was talking about making smoothies for my partner (cis-woman) to help her get more protein, and somehow that unlocked a fantasy for her. Her fantasy is me putting something into her smoothie (consensually with her knowledge!) to make her insatiably horny, like mindlessly horny, for a period of time. I already turn her on a lot with the things I do, but the goal of this is to take things to the extreme.
The first thing we thought of was maca powder. We both anecdotally report a slight boost to libido with it, but I don't think it's nearly that dramatic. As far as other drugs go, the other one I've heard of is vyleesi. It seems like it has a slight/modest impact, but again, I'm not sure there really is anything that has a known impact on libido at this extremely level.
The other things I've considered utilizing to try to bring this fantasy to life:
- Longer term edging. Of course this can be effective, but ultimately, it still relies on her overall hormonal cycle and general libido cycle to be most effective.
- Conditioning. We've already been practicing some form of this for a long time, and it's certainly had a high level of effect, especially when it comes to orgasms. But I'm not sure if there are better more consistent methods for directly increasing libido.
- Hypnosis. This is the one that seems most plausible to me. Creating a trigger for extreme arousal seems like it could be effective. 4.Cycle Tracking. She is doing this currently, and soon we'll have data on specific times when she is most aroused.
- General Health & Wellness. This is obviously shown to increase libido, but again, not really the ultra strong effect we're going for.
My current thinking is it's going to have to be some sort of combination protocol for a month. Hypnosis/conditioning training, general health and wellness improvements, and edging combined with utilizing specific days on her cycle and taking maca powder/vyleesi on those extra horny days.
I'd love to know if you guys have any other tips or ideas for how to make this a reality!
Disclaimer: There is an erotic story I wrote for her in my post history which deals with this very subject. The story is a work of fiction and is not representative of my experiences, views on RACK/kink, safety, or otherwise general respect for consent. While the fantasy is the same, the approach would be completely different, in that in reality she would be aware and enthusiastically consenting at all times.
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