So my ace friend is interested in experimenting with kink. They have apparently learned a lot about it but have no experience. Can I get some input from any ace spectrum people here? I will obviously be talking with my friend about what they are looking to experiment with but as the experienced party I would like to have some idea what I should be doing the same and what I should be doing differently if that makes sense? Also I mention I am a very sexual but I do enjoy BDSM with no direct sexual component, though arousal is sort of the point to me.

Idk if anyone can say much with the admittedly little information I have layed out here but any input is welcome tbh just kinda nervous about participating in their first experience. Ty all so much