How nice is it to frustrate a male's penis in bondage? Asking for a friend.

I recently had a conversation with another male. He was mostly straight, dominant, had no interest in touching me sexually, and had a particular interest in male erections. Moreover, his interest seemed to be frustrating a male erection while his sub (me) in rope bondage remained powerless to resolve the urge.

The questions he asked me revolved around the 'power' of energy behind an erection, and how beautiful it was to see me powerless. Almost like an aphrodisiac, his words and tone seemed to encourage my ache more and more as remained captive in my restraints. It felt like torture in the softest and most defeating way.

I felt he was humbling me. It left me very pouty. Asking me questions like:

• “You seem pretty docile in your head, how are you feeling?”
• “What is it like to be roped down by another male? I wouldn’t know, I’m curious.”
• “Erections are pretty powerful things, huh? Your’s has been sustained for the last 5-6 hours this way.”
• “You seem to be pretty horny in your restraint, huh?”
• “Do you feel the need to touch yourself right now? Tell me about that.”
• “The rope is pretty heavy and tight, huh? It’s a beautiful thing to know you’re nice and trapped.”

I think we can agree that erections are beautiful experiences to have, especially when left unresolved, psychologically edged, all in an attempt to defeat and subdue a sub’s ability to cum.

I don't know about you but it felt like being gentled, encouraged to be strong but yet defeated in restraint. Seeing a beautiful erection go frustrated. Given small glimmers of hope in how he asks questions, to be left vulnerable and trapped.

Anyone else experience something like that, whether as a dominant doing this or the sub receiving this?