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Disclaimer: I'm sick as a dog right now with a fever and may or may not be in my right head
I consider myself to be Heteroflexible, but Heteroromantic. I find feminine men attractive but not to the same degree I find women attractive (My friend called me Demi-Gynesexual but that term doesn't sit right with me which is why I use Heteroflexible, although the Demi part may very well be true idk) and I find trans women attractive (I don't know if that makes me a chaser, I hope not) But I see occasional posts from people saying that they'll tie up someone of the same sex when they're heterosexual, since the activity isn't inherently sexual, and that got me thinking about how, say for one of my big kinks, Worship and Chastity, if it would be fulfilling for me as a Dom if I opened myself up to male subs. I don't know if I'd be open to actually having sex with them, that's something I'd have to figure out still. And of course I wouldn't be lying to anyone if I said I was unsure about it, I think being extremely open from the getgo is important and I'd tell any guys who'd be interested up front that I may very well not be attracted to them, but am just experimenting.
This was also partially prompted by the nurse who saw me in the hospital triggering a feeling of "Oh he's cute" (I didn't try to hit on him, he's a professional trying to do his job).
I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you find someone sexually attractive, would you play with them with no chance of romantic feelings/commitment?
I'd hope to be friends with that person of course, I'm not saying I'd want to play with complete strangers.
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