Hello

So I saw a post the other day about zero to low effort replies and messages from people who either did not read a personal ad fully or did not read it all. I saw one or two replies to the post from subs that said that they had replied with properly and well thought out messages after having read the whole ad and didn’t get a response. This can be discouraging and over time make them so jaded that they begin to send generic messages to as many Doms as they can to be able to reach more and get responses. Of course not all subs that do that, do that for this reason. Most of them are just time wasters looking for kink dispensers and how to get off.

Now I’m not pointing fingers at anyone to excuse such behavior but I’m genuinely curious to know and my question to Doms are, why do you not reply to messages you’ve gotten that are like this? Even if it’s to say you’re not interested? Each time I have posted my ads, I have received about 5/6 senders max out of over 50 who fully read the full ad and responded accordingly. I replied to all of them even if it’s to say I’m not interested and gave them a reason why I can see it would not work. The others got zero responses. I have seen other Dommes say the same, that such messages are few and far in between so why do Dommes not reply them to at the very least return the courtesy while encouraging them at the same time?