This is something I ran into by accident and I’m curious to find someone experienced? I’m probably the true definition of a switch but lately, after years of being a sub and feeling too nervous to dive into my dominant side, I’m starting to transform into a much more dominant role.

I had an ex who brought this out of me. It started with degradation, progressed into edging, light bondage, etc… and then he introduced me to findom.

I’m not someone who is doing this for money. I have a career and support myself, yet something about knowing a man gets turned on by spending his money on me makes me so insanely wet - even something as simple as buying me a drink or something small.

Now that I’m out of that relationship, I’m not only struggling to find a good male sub, but I wouldn’t even know where to start to continue the financial aspect, as regardless of kink, I want someone who is willing but can also afford to participate in this kink. Any advice is appreciated!