My bf and I (both Italy 27) are both successful in what we do and we found this equilibrium un which I dominate him by being a femdom executive.

Let's skip the psychological part in which I find arousing to have more power than I have in my normal life while for him it's the opposite.

Long story short I allow him to cum only once a week (we are both very busy so we can't have sex often) and I also peg him while I'm making him say that I am his boss therefore I can make what I want with him.

I would like to have some more ideas to make this power dynamic go on in terms of:

1) toys to buy, we already have (bdsm restraints, strap on dildo, normal dildo, ball gag, horse crop and a paddle

2) things to do: I already threat him to be put in chastity if he doesn't cum swiftly as I stroke him, or I peg him for quite a bit to make him understand who is in charge and so on

3) anything that comes into your mind

4) thanks a lot for all the people who gave suggestions in my past posts, I've done wonderfully because if you :)