I hope I won't irritate or otherwise vex any of you with this question but I'm trying to understand what I'm drawn to this. I suspect that I will and if that's the case, I'm sorry.

Despite my username, I wouldn't say that I'm an overly sexual person. I guess I have my moments but I'm by no means obsessed with it. With all due respect, sexual intercourse doesn't really interest me. I suppose that puts me in the asexual category.

With BDSM, it's different. There are aspects of BDSM that I find sexually arousing. I don't know if it's worth it to get into specifics but suffice it to say, my sexual curiosity is piqued when it comes to BDSM and I'm not sure why.