Hello

I’m just musing on this and interested what others think? I don’t mean “can you” as in is it allowed, I think if it’s consensual, legal and ethical you can have what you want pretty much when it comes to sex, so I’m sure the answer is yes - but I mean what does it look like and how does it work?

I also don’t mean switching (prearranged before or during), I know that’s a possibility.

But are there kink activities that don’t require a dynamic to exist? I guess it depends on your definition of vanilla vs kinky in terms of the activity, for example I know people who think feet and butts (as in playing with them) are kinky but I think we’re all probably on about the same page about that!

Maybe it’s just the psychological aspect, like if no one gets told to do anything but just does it because they want to?

Anyway, curious - can anyone who doesn’t play with a dynamic (where both are “equal” - you know what I mean by that I hope, everyone’s really equal in my mind, but in terms of a power exchange being absent) give me any examples that I can picture?

(I’m afab, not that it matters to the question in general but just for context)