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PSA I’m fairly new to BDSM….
I know fetlife isn’t a dating app but rather like a social media platform for the BDSM community. But my question is, is it actually any good at connecting with people. I’ve debated creating an account but I just wanted to see if people have found it helpful in connecting with other people local to their area in the BDSM community.
I have been on Fet for a year now. Initially was on it to meet play partners who are open minded. I met a really great (former) FWB who introduced me to rope and impact play, a kink photographer who I posed for a kinky role play photo shoot, and my boyfriend who is the best I’ve ever had. Now I primarily use Fet for events and to follow the kink scene in my area.
Like anything, it is what you make it. I ignore the horndogs in my DMs.
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