I’m very curious to know about other people’s “first time” experiences and when/where they became fascinated with BDSM.

For me, it wasn’t anything super special by any means. I can’t say it wasn’t life changing, though… I was always an incredibly horny teenager that indulged in a TON of doom scrolling nights where I’d watch hours of porn. Before and after school too. There was even a day where I woke up and immediately started it by watching porn, masturbating, and falling back asleep long enough to miss my first period class. Fast forwarding to one day where I became so bored of all the same old story line pornos that I began aimlessly clicking on different categories on PornHub… I eventually stumbled across a video of a teacher/student dynamic where the student brought a strap on inside her backpack and eventually pegged her teacher.

Might sound silly to some (it still does to me) but most times when you have intense realizations with an actively developing brain, you tend to remember most details. After watching that porno, there was a full blown lightbulb moment that happened and I was eager to learn more about the sub / dom culture. Ever since that day I realized that the reason why I was never dating any boys growing up was because they were all too “dominant” for my liking and could/would have never have the privilege of being controlled by someone so dominant such as myself.

Now that I’ve shared some of my “coming of age” experience, feel free to leave a comment and share what made you curious about BDSM. If you have read this far, know that I appreciate it and hope you enjoyed reading through the rollercoaster that is my lack of structured story telling (lol).