My wife and I have an amazing arrangement I’m a switch but tend to lean more sub and she is a sub We recently starting playing a lot more with bdsm and although I really enjoy it being her dom it doesn’t feel quite natural. I want to do it for her. She really wants me to just take control and do whatever pleases me. Here’s where it gets a little tricky. I have a lady friend domme who is my key holder and my wife is fully aware. It can be hard sometimes to switch between dom and sub within in 2 conversations with 2 different people. I guess what I’m asking is there a way to be a dom while being someone’s sub. For example being dom with my wife while being caged? Any advice would be helpful