I am wondering and I doubt I am alone in this, but I struggle with feeling both feminine and “submissive” with their body type? I (28F) Struggle with being happy with my body and feeling like a sexy, desirable, feminine (which is what I want to come off as) submissive woman. I love working out, I lift weights, I’m described as jacked but I also have just enough extra weight for curves.

But I feel masculine despite what curves I do have and like I’m big even though I’m short (5’2”). Especially when I look at obviously BDSM models or even munchies where I see beautiful lithe or soft women who just “look” like they fit their ‘role’

I love how I dress and my armor for feeling safe and secure is the muscle I have. My Daddy loves it- but how do you accept and reconcile with a body that you feel like doesn’t fit who you are or is enough? I just want advice. Or perspective so hopefully I can shift mine in a positive light. I know I can’t cure my massive dysmorphia but I do know I can work on improving mindsets.

I appreciate any answers or advice. Thank you