I started talking to my current dom online back in December. After a talking for almost a month. I felt comfortable enough to meet him in person. We have now been seeing each other for 5 weeks and decided last week to make it official. We both have fwb's that we had before we met and we are both ok with it. We met on aff, but are also both on fetlife. His fwb is also on there. We are tagged in each other's profile. So there is the openness there. So I am not jealous of his fwb or any of his interactions on fet. But he is still on aff, he is a gold member and says he is not renewing in May. I am not a gold member so i can log on and see he is on. But i can't do much else. I have had multiple partners in the past. And didn't have the jealousy. But i also didn't have this unknown. Is it crazy that the unknown of what is going on there is making me jealous or uneasy? But not the known fwb or any comments he may make on other girls stuff on fet. I am trying to deal with this but I am struggling . And I know I need to say something.