Very new, trying to soft dom to my gf.

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Like I said, I’m as new as they come to any kind of bdsm. But my gf (25f) and I (23m) are considering trying some soft (very soft) dom/sub behavior.

We’re very much not into pain, and I would like to approach with caution. What are some good ways to softly boss her around and take charge of her? It’s a bit of a roll reversal since she tends to to be the more outgoing and more decisive one in the relationship, and I tend to be more reserved and give her final say on most things.

I think that light bondage, being more authoritative/bossy, and praise are mostly what we are going for.

Any tips?

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