Switch here that's really into the degradation aspect of things. My current SO is not into receiving (unless it's light bondage or a slap here and there). I have tried to describe what I like kinda, but he's wanting to be more gentle since I'm pregnant which is understandable.

I recently also got out of an ab*sive relationship and honestly the degradation aspect of bdsm really helps me cope with that (choking, slapping, name calling, etc).

I guess what I'm looking for is some new ideas to try out with my SO as the Dom that are safe during pregnancy. I'm also really into objectification (piss play, human ashtray, etc). I love it and I don't wanna scare him off by asking for it directly. How can I bring it up to him that I want to be like humiliated, objectified, degraded, etc? Because I know he's never really done anything like that before. 😅 This is completely new to both of us, having someone that's so open to trying new things in the bdsm world.