For context, we do casual phone when we can and share spicey photos, all the usual. We’re both really big bottoms/subs and we switch who’s the top from time to time. My boyfriend is much MUCH more experienced in bdsm and has a lot of irl experience too. Whereas I have very little experience, I have the kinks just not the irl experience yet.

So to my question of this post. My boyfriend and I like punishing each other when we’re in charge. Recently my boyfriend was bad and now has a punishment lined up (I was asking him to measure his cock for me but he came before he could measure). The problem is I’m very new to domming and aren’t quite sure how to punish him and go about it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, both to how to do punishments and also some general long distance domming tips.

Some other side notes before any replies. We are by no means doing 24/7 stuff rn, we just do fun casual stuff so smtn that fits within that would be preferable, and we already have talked throughly about limits and boundaries. Thank you I can’t wait to read your advice.

Please don’t DM, only give advice in comments.