First off, I'm super new to this. I'm not totally comfortable meeting with people casually since I don't do casual sex anyways. But it couldn't hurt to test the waters, I thought. I've been talking to this couple for about a week and we exchanged non nude pics.

Originally I agreed to text them but after having a stalker I'm hesitant to share my number. They gave me a few reasons for why it makes sense to share my phone number, like the fact I'm not highly active on the app. But I don't have time to text someone every day unless I'm dating them. I think every few days or so is plenty. When I mentioned a video chat, that was looked over but they did invite me out recently so idk.

Am I right to see this as a red/orange flag? It feels pushy to me