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Repairing after a consent violation?
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A partner did something we had not negotiated for today during a public rope scene. I'm having a rather strong trauma response and the urge to shut down the dynamic is very present. This being said, I know this partner did not mean harm, I know she is someone who is dedicated to repair, and I think when I'm less activated it would be something I'm quite open to. I'm looking for some recommendations on how to work to repair and heal a dynamic after harm has been done.

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