I’ve always been the “dominant” one in my marriage and always have been the “dominant” one in the bedroom. This does not however mean I’ve ever been an actual dom. I’ve always had a kinky side to me, while the wife is mostly vanilla. Just by pure luck, I found a new OA couple on Reddit. After chatting for a bit, her and I went to Telegram and started our own thing. After just a day of chatting and finding out she was a sub, I began to become her dom. One word. Wow! The feeling of power and control was euphoric. My dom was always in me and was just now coming to the surface. Apparently I was doing quite well for my first time. She was more experienced but only in solo submissions. She definitely approved and I was her Sir. The pictures and videos she sent were absolutely amazing! Leaving my mark on her and seeing what I had done was indescribable. I loved the feeling of being a Dom! Things seemed to be going quite well, it was an intense week. Unfortunately, out of nowhere, she ghosted. Although this was my first experience, it will not deter me. It definitely opened my eyes and heightened my need to seek a new and longer lasting relationship. Cheers from this newbie, well wishes to you all!