People have asked for a follow up, and I don't have much to offer, but here we go! Basically, besides me and my boyfriend there were only three other people. They were all wonderful, friendly, and made me feel safe and free to talk. They were cool with the Fansly shit, too. The only thing is that my social anxiety was very triggered and I am still agonizing over what I said wrong and badly.

For full background, this was my first munch but not my first kink outing. My first kink outing was an event at a club in late winter/early spring of last year, and it's what got me into Reddit and this community, for which I am grateful.

The munch was a great experience, it got me to make a personal, non professional Fetlife, and it made me want to connect more with the BDSM community. Please try to go if you feel safe!! I recommend driving or getting a ride*, bringing a buddy in the community, and having an escape plan. Not that these things are unsafe, just that anyone with anxiety knows what they need to do to get by.

*I could have taken a bus, but it would have been my first time doing that in a long time and it would have been unneeded stress.